The Sanguine:
Hippocrates identified the Sanguine by
the color red, or “blood”, which fits them perfectly. The
Sanguine in Inclusion (social interaction, surface
relationships and intellectual energies) is a very social
person who likes to be with people. Of all the temperaments,
the Sanguine is the easiest to be around socially. They
bring life and energy into a room by their very presence.
Their cheerfulness and humor brighten everyone’s life. They
are an optimistic type of person who believes life is an
exciting and fun-filled experience that should be lived to
the fullest. Inactivity causes them stress because the pace
at which they like to live their lives is fast and furious.
The Sanguine in Inclusion is the most impulsive of all the
temperaments.
The Sanguine in Inclusion excels in communication-oriented
things, but they do not relate well to tasks. They are the
least disciplined and organized of all the temperaments.
While they are outgoing, enthusiastic, warm, compassionate,
and seem to relate well to other people’s feelings, yet they
can be rude and uncaring. They tend not to be faithful nor
loyal friends, since they do not want to be “burdened down”
with commitments; they just want to have fun.
They live as though they have no past or future, the
Sanguine in Inclusion rarely learns from their past
mistakes. They are prone to exaggerate. They never recognize
their failures, but exaggerate to make themselves appear to
be more successful than they truly are. The Sanguine’s major
weakness is that they adopt severe and destructive behavior.
The Sanguine in Control (decision-making abilities,
willingness to take on responsibilities, and the need for
independence) is unique and very rare. Only 2% (two percent)
of the population have this control, and they are
predominantly male. What makes them so unique is they swing.
All the other temperaments are stabilized. For example a
Choleric is always domineering, but the Sanguine in Control
behaves like a Choleric one day, totally in charge and
domineering, and the next day they are totally dependent. In
their independent / domineering mode, they are aggressive,
responsible, demanding and capable of undertaking any task.
In their dependent / self-indulging mode they are
irresponsible, self-indulgent and nearly drown in their own
pool of self-pity.
What causes the swing in the Sanguine in Control?
They have an unquenchable need for recognition and approval;
when this is withheld from them by people that are
“important” to them, or when they are criticized, they do a
“nose dive into the dependent mode. When the Sanguine in
Control swings, they drop everything and shirk
responsibilities. This person will volunteer for difficult
tasks and they can and will complete the project so long as
their ego is being fed. However, at the first sign
indicating that they are not “the greatest thing that ever
happened to the world,” the quit! They just stop and walk
away and inwardly turn into themselves - caring nothing
about the project or those depending upon them.
However, when the Sanguine in Control has remained in the
dependent, self-indulgent side of their swing for a short
period, they begin to feel ugly. This is an emotional “ugly”
made up of feelings like guilt, worthlessness and
selfishness. These feelings begin turning them around, and
soon they are back to the “take charge,” responsible and
dependable person everyone knows, loves and reveres.
The problem with this narcissistic (self-indulgent) swing is
that the person can indulge themselves in gambling and
alcoholic binges, drugs, sexual sins, etc. Until the
Sanguine in Control learns to control the swing instead of
the swing controlling them, AND until the Sanguine in
Control learns to be self-indulgent in godly ways they will
have a very unstable life. But once this is learned they can
have a very wonderful and productive life.
Inclusion Strengths of The Sanguine: Friendly,
outgoing, inspiring to others, relationship oriented,
enthusiastic, warm, optimistic, ability to see the bright
side of life and the good in other people. They genuinely
like people, are rarely found alone, and freely interact
with people.
Inclusion Weaknesses of The Sanguine: Talkative,
always the center of the conversation, apt to take on
behavior and morals of the people around them, impulsive,
undisciplined, rude, prone to exaggerate, need to appear
successful (even to the point of exaggeration), will ignore
responsibilities in order to be with people.
Control Strengths And Weaknesses of The Sanguine:
Correlate with their dependent / independent conflict.
Dependent: To be narcissistic, self-indulgent (the need to
self-indulgent is not a weakness, but the way that this
indulgence is met is the weakness), lacking persistence and
weak-willed. Independent:
Solicitous, caring person who will do things for other
people, almost to the point of servitude. A very charming,
gracious person. Takes on responsibilities and makes
decisions very well, until driven to the dependent mode.
Affection Strengths of The Sanguine: Able to express
and receive large amounts of love and affection. They are
warm and easy to get to know and emotionally open.
Affection Weaknesses of The Sanguine: Easily
devastated if not constantly reassured they are loved and
appreciated. Very demanding of other people for love and
affection, plagued with feelings of jealousy when the love
and attention they feel belongs exclusively to them is given
to others.
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